Often, it seems that the man we love most in our lives can be a little bit too easy to take for granted. If you feel that your boyfriend doesn’t understand the many ways in which you support him, or that he doesn’t really value you, you might be wondering how to make him realize your worth.

Thankfully, there are many ways to show your man that you appreciate him. Sometimes it might even be more effective to demonstrate your affection through actions rather than words, as men are more likely to respond well to concrete demonstrations of love and respect. It might be a good idea to consider taking care of yourself and exploring new hobbies outside of your relationship, so that you’re not always relying on him to entertain and stimulate you.

If you want your man to truly recognize your value, you may have to draw a line in the sand and demand that you are not being taken advantage of. While this might be a hard pill to swallow, it will ensure that you are not in a race to see who can walk all over whom.

If you’re unsure how to get your man to respect you, it might be a good idea to consult with a professional relationship coach who can help you find the most effective solution to your problems. A professional coach will also be able to help you gain a better understanding of your own beliefs and how they can be self-defeating, as counselor Katharina Star explains in this article on changing self-defeating beliefs. How to value your man